
Dearest Birth Mother,
Our Story (the short version!)
We met in the spring of 2012 at a Manhattan restaurant that Violet frequented and where Terry worked. By August we were, and have been since, inseparable. The “moment” for us was when we were sitting on a park bench overlooking the Hudson River talking about our lives, as well as our hopes and dreams. We listened to each other. We understood each other. We trusted each other. We helped each other. We needed each other. We loved each other. Then and now. We recently celebrated our second wedding anniversary!
We were married in the Catholic Church. Our wedding day was filled with friends and family from the world over, along with great food, music and dancing. There was also a speech from us encouraging everyone to love and respect each other regardless of personal differences.
We moved to the Indianapolis area in November 2017 from New York City with the goal of starting a family in a more family-friendly environment. We knew from the beginning that it would be very difficult for us to conceive a child, so we always talked about adoption as our best family building option. We are now filled with excitement and cannot wait to be blessed with our first child.

About Violet (by Terry)
About Terry (by Violet)
Terry is a loving husband and my rock. He is intelligent, charming, energetic, charismatic, outgoing. He has a great sense of humor and lights up the room with his smile, jokes and storytelling. Kind, patient, and caring- I am sure that these traits and his love and compassion are something he will instill in our family. Terry is supportive, patient, and open-minded. He has a great sense of morality and shows unconditional love. He will ensure our child(ren) see the value in everything they have, from the food on the table to a good education.
Terry has the biggest heart. It is his nature to be there for people when they need help or to just share what’s troubling them. He believes that life is about living and he just refuses to let stress and worry consume him. He keeps life exciting. Terry also has a sensitive side and I love that about him. Terry is the oldest of three siblings and grew up in Mississippi. Terry is a Notre Dame graduate with experience in financial software sales and currently works in the professional service industry as a server/trainer at an upscale steakhouse in Indianapolis.

Our Home

We live in a modern apartment community in central Indiana. Our apartment is a two-bedroom, two-bath open concept with lots of space. The walls are filled with memories of our times together, and there are little elephants everywhere! Although we plan on buying a home soon in the same area, we have truly made our apartment our “home.”
Our community is diverse and welcoming. The schools near us are some of the best in the nation. We attend a Catholic Church where we are both active participants. We live near numerous parks, playgrounds, agricultural and entertainment venues. We have a strong network of supportive family members and close friends, both here in Indianapolis, as well as many other places. This includes Terry’s mother who can’t wait to welcome and spoil her first grandchild!

About Abby
Our Interests

In Closing

You can also reach us through our adoption counselor Maggie Benz at: 800-869-1005 847-366-6343 (text) [email protected]