Emily and Justin
Dear Expectant Mother,
We found each other on the internet, busy grad students with temporary jobs and big dreams. A few short months after we met in person, our dreams expanded and intertwined. Each choice we have made in the seven years since has been made together, and though we have struggled through significant trials and losses in that time, we have also managed to build a solid life that we can be proud of.
Our life is filled with love and laughter, which sounds totally cliché but is nevertheless true. When we’re not having in-depth discussions about education or whatever else is on our minds, we’re cracking each other up with goofy inside jokes. We love traveling, both to explore new landscapes and to visit old friends. We walk, a lot. We put on music and cook together while our cat sits on her chair in the kitchen with us, and we are excited to include our child in this ritual as well.
About Justin (written by Emily)
Justin is incredible, but he will tell you otherwise. His heart is enormous, and he will do anything for the people he loves. It’s nearly impossible to reduce him to a series of words.
He is my best friend, my favorite person in the world. I have been able to count on him since the day we met, and he has held me up through everything that life has thrown at me in the past seven years. He is constantly making me think, making me laugh, and making me the best version of myself.
It is wonderful to be with someone who gets to live his passion every day; as a high school German teacher, Justin is able to blend his love of learning, his love of performing, and his love of exploring other cultures with his desire to make this world a better place. He strives to reach each and every one of his students, especially those not keen on school, and to provide them with a safe and fun place to be. His care for those kids has literally saved lives.
One of my favorite memories: We had recently moved to a new place, and I had just finished planting my first garden there. A bee buzzed by and I exclaimed, “How will the bees know how to get to the new garden?” Bees communicate directions through dance, so Justin immediately hopped up and began shimmying and shaking to show the bees the way.
About Emily (written by Justin)
Emily is a capable, intelligent, genuine, and thoughtful individual who is committed to making a positive impact in our world each day. She makes me proud to be her husband. I am always astonished and impressed by her ability to excel at so many things. From creative projects to gardening to hot water heater repairs, I sometimes wonder if there’s anything Emily cannot do. She’s open to learning and she is an astute observer, and I can’t think of anyone in my life who I’d rather have on my team.
She’s well-read, introspective and she has an intuition about people and the ways of the universe. And although Emily is wise beyond her years, she is also just fun to be around and hasn’t forgotten how to be a child—she savors life’s sweet, simple moments. She has dragged me out into the pouring rain on a summer day just to run crazily about and enjoys a vine-fresh tomato to its fullest. Each and every day, we love to laugh together by making up funny quotes and voices. It’s just what we do together!
Emily so easily fits her role as librarian and a teacher at our high school, and there are so many students who trust her as a mentor, coming to her for comfort and counsel in their lives. She is a natural listener and a patient, caring educator. Her personal value of inclusion and selflessness are inspiring, and I have no doubt she would make the best mother, as well.
Emily is open with her feelings and opinions, and she is steadfast in her values. She is a loyal friend, she is loving, and solidly my dearest person. I love her more than anyone I have ever known.
Thank you for considering us as adoptive parents. To learn more about us, please contact our adoption counselor, Linda, who would be happy to answer your questions. Feel free to contact her at: firstname.lastname@example.org, toll free at 1-800-869-1005, or send Linda a text message at 773-919-5702. You can also email us at: email@example.com.